| | | | | | Here's What TripSavvy Readers Bought This Year | Living in New York City, I walk a lot, which also means that I go through shoes quickly; holes in my soles are the norm, and a worn-down heel can mean aching knee pain until I rotate in a new pair. Over the summer, when my feet told me that it was time to buy new sneakers, I decided to pick up a pair of Allbirds based on the recommendation of TripSavvy's senior editorial director, Laura Ratliff. I went with the black Women's Tree Runners, which, when I put on, felt like walking on a cloud. As someone with big feet and a second toe that's longer than her big toe, I have a hard time finding shoes—and an even harder time finding a pair that is actually comfortable; these, to me, felt like a revelation. I sang their praises so loud that my boyfriend, who was shopping with me at the time, bought the men's version for himself (and later, another pair for his mother). It appears that we weren't the only ones who gave into the Allbirds hype—you were all about these ultra-comfy shoes, too. And yet our readers' desire to invest in a good pair of travel shoes went beyond Allbirds; whether you were looking for a running sneaker such as Hoka One One's Clifton 8 or Teva's Midform Universal sandals for long days at the beach, this year, you sought shoes that could literally go the extra mile. But our readers didn't just amp up their shoe game this year. From stylish one-piece swimsuits to sleek luggage, 2021 was all about revamping travel wardrobes and prepping for the much-desired return to travel. For trendsetters who have their eyes on the latest fashion styles and outdoor enthusiasts with extra holiday cash to spend on the newest gear, read on to see 2021's most popular commerce round-ups among TripSavvy readers. | | Our editors independently research, test, and recommend the best products and services; you can learn more about our review process here. We may receive commissions on purchases made from our chosen links. | | | | | | You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the Travel Today newsletter. If you wish to unsubscribe, please click here | | | 28 Liberty Street, 7th Floor, New York, NY, 10005 | | | | | | | | | | | If you believe this has been sent to you in error, please safely unsubscribe.
You're supposed to flit around, popping small things into your mouth while you drink and dance. | | New Year's Eve Is for Small Bites | | | I've got a photo from New Year's Eve two years ago, where I'm holding a black balloon; little did I know what an apt harbinger of 2020 that would turn out to be. The following NYE we toasted, at home, to the end of all that. Ha! The end. Hilarious. Now here we are again, at the cusp of 2022, and I know better than to feel wildly optimistic. But you know what? I'm going to party anyway (safely, in a cabin, just my husband and me). Because if the past two years have taught me anything, they've taught me to savor every little bit of nowness that I'm alive. I've always felt that New Year's Eve is a night for small bites. You're supposed to flit around, popping small things into your mouth while you drink and dance. It's a night for bacon-wrapped dates, deviled eggs, and blue cheese-stuffed figs. Maybe you make some chicken liver mousse or smoked fish paté well ahead of time. Why does roast marrow bones with parsley salad read as a NYE dish to me? I don't know, but it does. This may sound scandalous, coming from a food editor, but I don't see myself making dessert. I think instead I'll open a fancy box of chocolates. Stick With Me—don't mind if I do. I am plotting to make these blood orange negronis. We'll toast with the usual champagne, and serve the remainder as bellinis the next morning. Just a couple months ago the founder of one of my favorite places, Brunette Wine Bar, died of cancer. The gorgeous essay Tracy Kennard wrote months before her death is still with me. Last New Year's I made a version of the bar's caviar nachos, potato chips dotted with creme fraiche and salmon roe. This year, maybe I'll do something completely different and make the ramen Kennard wrote about in her essay. Ramen noodles for longevity? That's not quite it. No, ramen because for now, I'm so very lucky to be here. | | | | | | | | | The Spruce Eats on YouTube | | | | | | | More From the Spruce Eats | | | | | | | | | | Follow us: | You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to The Spruce Eats newsletter. Unsubscribe | © 2021 Dotdash.com — All rights reserved. Privacy Policy. | A DOTDASH BRAND | 28 Liberty Street, 7th Floor, New York, NY, 10005 | | | | | | |
Despite stereotypes, the answer may surprise you. Take two minutes to read, explore, and reflect. In many cultures—including those in the Western world—women are often framed as being more emotional compared to males. More than that, there's a socially ingrained idea that women are often overly emotional, to the point of being "dramatic," "too sensitive," or even "hysterical" (a word that references female anatomy, specifically). While this might seem like a slam solely against those with two X chromosomes, this stereotype negatively impacts men, as well. They're often expected to exhibit fewer, if any, emotions—even in heart-wrenching situations. In other words, these stereotypes mean everyone loses. A recent study from Scientific Reports observed the emotions of 142 men and women over 75 days. Researchers concluded that the male participants' emotions fluctuated just as much as the women. It even found that emotions remained the same among women who menstruate and those on birth control. Though society is slowly moving away from stereotypes on this matter, having scientific evidence helps reiterate the importance of removing these unhelpful, often damaging rigid boxes. Portraying women and men as inherently falling along stereotypical gender roles as 'natural' or 'innate' perpetuates incorrect gender role myths, stereotypes, and sexism." — CATHERINE MCKINLEY, PHD It might feel easy to step into molded stereotypes, but such assumptions can cause damage. They prevent everyone from expressing their full range of emotions in a healthy way, which negatively impacts our mental (and even physical) health. It's important to be honest about how you're feeling and to ask for help and support when you need it. Ways to Stay Positive This Week -
Emotions are downright complicated. Sometimes we feel furiously angry, but deep down that anger comes from a place of embarrassment, hurt, or shame. Karla McLaren's "The Language of Emotions: What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You" helps you better understand, and accept, your emotions so you can move toward resolution and inner peace. Products to Help You Feel Your Best -
Created by Joy Johnson, LCSW, "The Self Compassion Workbook" is full of effective exercises and strategies designed to help you ground yourself, practice self-compassion, and confidently build the life you desire. -
Talking about our feelings can be a challenge. Like everything, though, practice can help us feel more comfortable and equipped to do so. The Box of Emotions is an 80-piece deck of cards with each featuring a specific emotion complete with beautiful graphics. - If you're looking for a new self-help book to inspire you to make positive changes in the new year, here are seven of our favorites.
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